I'm a city girl.
Hands down without a doubt.
I've lived in the country so I can say that. Truly.
Meet Quincy, Washington.
Obviously this isn't the whole town, but this is a good representation of what it was like to live there.
Farm Country.
Farm country as in, when it's school spirit day at the High School, and the school colors are green and yellow, everyone drives their John Deere tractors to school. Seriously. It was pretty cool actually.
Farm country, where 4-H is bigger than FBLA.
Farm country, where you give directions by saying "turn at the first light" or "turn at the second light", because there were only two intersections with lights in the town.
Where directions also included, "turn off the paved road {
you might be a redneck if #63}, take a left at the first barn, and it's the second house with a white fence."
Farm country, where it's impossible to stay clean from the knee down because nothing off the main roads is paved.
Farm country, where the nearest... anything, was an hour away.
Farm country, where the people are there for each other because they know and understand each other.
Farm country, where the produce is fresh and the best you've ever had. I will throw my opinion in and say that Washington potatoes are better than Idaho potatoes.
Farm country, where, even though I can now say with out a doubt that I am a city girl, I'm glad I got to spend some time with it. Talk about finding your roots among home grown people.
I think of my time in Quincy with a smile on my face. The stars were bright and I learned that there is nothing sweeter than the smell of rain mixing with the scent of onions growing in a field. I know when the alfalfa needs cutting by the onslaught of sneezing. Also, I'm not afraid to admit how much I love a good mud bogging competition. How grateful I am that my kids learned what it is to eat cherries right off the tree (don't strip the branches when you pick them though) and strawberries right from the patch.
Some of my favorite people still live in
Quincy, and I will never forget them or the life lessons I learned from them.
I remember driving home to Salt Lake, arriving in the valley in the dark of night, when Casidee (only five years old) gasped, "Mom! Look at all those
lights!"
"That's the city, Cas."
And every time we drove past lights she would exclaim, "there's more city! And more over there! Look at all of this city!"
My heart ached at that. I think that was the first indication for me that even though I loved the country, I missed the city more. I was sad that my girls didn't know city life.
From Quincy I moved to Vernal, Utah.
It wasn't farm country. But it was still country.
The roads and
most of the driveways were paved. You could still see neighbors despite the fields (unlike Quincy where the fields were too vast). And Vernal has a Wal-mart (sad, I know). That means not having to drive an hour for errands.
When I first moved to Vernal I lived in a mobile home while waiting for the rental to become available (thankfully it was only a month).
That was an experience. There were hay bales around the base of the home for "insulation". The shower handles didn't work. There was a hole in the wall in the hallway outside of the bathroom that exposed the shower pipes. There were handles put on these pipes and you would have to run back and forth from the shower where the water was flowing to the hallway where you could adjust the temp of the water. If the water changed while you were in the shower you had to yell for someone out in the hallway to help you adjust it.
I'm not kidding.
But once again I found that some of my favorite people lived in Vernal. I love them still.
Vernal is the most beautiful place I have ever lived.
Vernal has strong unity, amazing parades, and no rush hour traffic.
Between Quincy and Vernal I spent six years of my life with no rush hour. That part was bliss.
But there's something about living in the city.
I was downtown yesterday for a training and took this picture.
The old architecture just swallows me up. I love being surrounded by it.
I love the tall buildings and the diversity.
I went to lunch in an
Italian bistro that had exposed heat ducts and was packed to the brim with people in business suits, people in jeans and sandals and dread locks, and two elderly gentlemen in sweaters.
It was nestled in next to a fresh seafood market.
There was a city park full of green grass and trees. An island against all the cement. It was the perfect balance. In the summer this park homes a giant Farmer's Market every Saturday where you can buy fresh locally grown produce, and wares from local vendors.
I love the personality of cities.
I saw the Petunia the Pig statue, a group of kids eating sack lunches in a courtyard during a field trip, and a small cafe selling waffles and fries with tables to eat at on the sidewalk under an awning.
And all of this was within a five minute walk.
I ate lunch with five people I've never met before, who were a part of the training with me. They all knew each other, but were so welcoming to me, talking to me, asking me questions, making me feel welcome and included. Home grown people live in the city too.
And the city is where I want to be. Even with the rush hour.